By Dr. Noelle Sterne
Q: How much about yourself should you divulge to create a reciprocal relationship?
–Approachable Advisor
A: The benchmark is boundaries. For your poor suffering student, you want to be approachable, supportive, encouraging, and all the other wonderful adjectives of a sterling advisor. BUT—you don’t want to be over-open or fall into a sinkhole of too much sharing.
What’s appropriate for you to share:
How you struggled in graduate school, the nightmare of your defense.
What’s not appropriate for you to share:
Your latest root canal agony, your septic system failure.
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